You Live For Love.
You are here, on this planet at this time, to learn how to love more deeply.
And yet, there are times when your heart is closed.
Times when you feel insecure, undesirable, unworthy.
Times when you put up walls and keep out the ones you love.
Times when you numb and distract to avoid your deeper emotions.
All of these moments are precious tests.
Are you ready to meet these tests in new ways?
I'm Ready
Love & Purpose is an initiation.
You will not be the same man on the other side of this journey.
Parts of you will die.
It will be uncomfortable at times, and that's unavoidable.
But you are not alone in this.
Love & Purpose is a tribe.
The men who enter into this field share a devotional hunger for life.
Few things in this world are more powerful than a group of emotionally, spiritually, and sexually mature men.
Love & Purpose is a movement.
Every relationship in your life will be touched by the transformations you experience.
As you connect more deeply with your heart, your soul, and your sex,
you become a pillar of love & purpose.
Your words & actions, as well as your very way of being, uplift, inspire, and serve all Life.
Love & Purpose
6 Phase Curriculum
12 week Journey to Crack Your Heart Open and Make Love with All of Life
Phase 1: Foundations
Are you living in alignment with your greatest values & intentions?
Your foundation as a man of love & purpose is based on the choices and actions you make on a daily basis.
In this phase, you will strengthen your focus, discipline, and will-power, in order to follow through on the goals that matter most to you.
Phase 2: Inner Work
How well do you really know yourself?
The quality of love that you can experience in relationship is defined by the depth of your self-awareness.
In this phase, you will learn critical practices for generating self-awareness, understanding your emotions, and making the unconscious conscious.
Phase 3: Deeper Intimacy
How willing are you to share the depths of your heart & soul with another?
Intimacy is the lifeblood of relationship, and it is defined by your capacity to authentically express yourself.
In this phase, you will develop essential communication skills for building trust and deepening intimacy.
Phase 4: Erotic Awareness
Are you in control of Desire, or does Desire control you?
The man who is intimately aware of his erotic energy is a man who brings morea passion and aliveness into his relationship.
In this phase, you will learn to consciously cultivate, circulate, and channel your sexual energy in powerful, purposeful ways.
Phase 5: Sacred Sexuality
Are you just having sex or are you MAKING LOVE?
For passion to not only stay alive, but to thrive in partnership, sex must evolve beyond the quick-fix routines of kiss, fuck, cum.
In this phase, you will develop your capacity to create deeply enlivening journeys of sexual ecstasy.
Phase 6: Soul Purpose
How deeply are you living your purpose?
Purpose is an ongoing journey of becoming the man who knows his greatest gifts and shares them in devotional service to his partner, his family, his community, and all Life.
In this phase, you will integrate the lessons of this journey and firmly anchor your identity as a man of Love & Purpose.
Love & Purpose
consists of:
✧ Weekly Group Calls: An emergent space to meet what's most alive in the group. Replays will be available. Call times will be decided as a group at the start of the program. (13 total, 1.5-2 hours)
✧ Monthly 1-1 Mentorship Calls: Personalized sessions to guide you deeper into yourself. (3 total, 60-75 minutes)
✧ Weekly Videos & Assignments: The curriculum that guides our journey. 2 videos per week, plus audio recordings and readings. (You will receive lifetime access to the learning portal)
✧ Weekly 1-1 Practice Calls: Connect with another man from the group to practice the week's assignments together. Schedule call times with your partner. (12 total, 15-30 minutes)
✧ Group Communication Channel: Use this precious resource for additional support, accountability, and connection. (Via Telegram)
✧ BONUS:
- Extra calls with guest teachers
- Discounted rates for 1-1 mentorship
- Discounted rates for in-person events/retreats
Meet Your Guide
Greetings dear brother,
My name is Haribo aka Harry aka Haribo RiverFlow.
I am a devoted student of life, love, sex, and death.
I carry the title of relationship and sexuality coach.
My own path of deepening in love and discovering purpose has been catalyzed by a combination of education, initiation, and trauma.
My educational qualifications include a master's degree in education + community psychology and certifications in group facilitation, somatic therapy, and sexual healing bodywork.
The most important initiations of my life include: a 30 day wilderness solo; communions with Ayahuasca; 10 day silent meditation courses; and trainings with the International School of Temple Arts.
My story of trauma is defined by the death of my father when I was 15.
So much of my healing journey traces roots back to this event, as I uncover the ways in which grief continues to impact my most intimate relationships.
Beyond these experiences, it is the relationships in my life that continue to cook and mold me into the man I aspire to be.
The lessons I learn through partnership are tremendous. I look to my beloved as a precious teacher, enchanting goddess, and soul ally.
I am constantly challenged and inspired by the men in my life, who hold me accountable and call me into greater integrity.
The coaches with whom I've worked have been integral in supporting me to peel away the layers of my unconscious and discover more of myself.
As I step forth to steward this organism, known as Love & Purpose, I am standing on the shoulders of many wise + loving teachers, mentors, and leaders.